Mentality is your true master
A philosopher said: “Your mentality is your true master.”
A great man said: “Or you are driving life, or life is driving you.
Your mindset determines who is the mount and who is the jockey.”
An artist said: “You can’t extend the length of life, but you can extend its width; you can’t change the weather, but you can control your own mood; you can’t control the environment, but you can adjust your mindset.
“The Buddha said: things turn with the heart, the heart is made by the heart, and the troubles are born by the heart.”
Dickens said: A sound mindset overcomes power over a hundred kinds of wisdom.
Emerson said: A person who is always moving toward his goal, the whole world gives way to him.
. . . These words are simple but classic, incisive, and what kind of mental state a person has will produce some kind of life reality, which is beyond doubt.
Just like doing business, the capital you invest in, the more profits you will get in the future.
In life, a good attitude can make you optimistic and open-minded; a good attitude can make you overcome the suffering you face; a good attitude can make you indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life.
The history of civilization for thousands of years of humanity tells us that a positive attitude can help us to obtain health, happiness and wealth.
First, the mindset determines that a philosopher has said: “Your mentality is your master.
“In real life, we can’t control our own experiences, but we can control our own mentality; we can’t change others, but we can change ourselves.
In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality.
Therefore, whether a person succeeds or not depends mainly on his mentality.
Second, anger is worse than arrogance. There are good times and adversities in life. It is impossible to be adversity everywhere; there are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have a valley at all.
Because of the good or the peak of the toenails, because of the adversity or the low valley, the dejected, it is a shallow life.
In the face of setbacks, if you just overcome and get angry, then you are destined to be a weak forever.
Third, confidence can win the past and the present, many people fail, the reason is not because of incompetence, but because of lack of self-confidence.
Self-confidence is a force and a motivation.
When you are not confident, you are hard to do good things; when you don’t do anything bad, you are even less confident.
This is a vicious circle.
If you want to be free from this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure, you have to establish strong self-confidence.
Fourth, the heart is more action-oriented than the action, although the action will not necessarily succeed, but the action will not succeed.
Life won’t pay you for what you want to do, nor will you pay for what you know, or because you have something to pay for yourself.
A person’s goal is to start with a dream. One’s happiness is grasped from the mentality, and one’s success is achieved in action.
Because only action, whether to moisturize your successful food and spring water.
Five, the usual heart is indispensable, life can not be smooth, successful, but also failure; happy, but also lost.
If we look at these ups and downs in our lives too much, then life will never be calm for us, and there will never be laughter.
Life should be pursued, but it will not get into daily happiness for the time being. Therefore, having a normal heart is an essential lubricating agent for life.
Sixth, giving up in a timely manner will have a harvest, sometimes it will be necessary at the end, and there is no time to ask for it.
Don’t force things that don’t belong to you, learn to give up at the right time.
Maybe when you are exhausted, you will get something you once wanted and can’t get, and you will have an unexpected harvest at this time.
Giving up at the right time is a kind of wisdom.
It will lead you to look more closely at your internal potential and external factors, so that your tired and tired body can be adjusted to become a happy and wise person.
Blind persistence is not as good as rational giving up.
The person who is struggling to keep the sunset is a stupid person. The person who has been hurting the spring for a long time is a fool.
Anyone who is reluctant to give up often loses more precious things.When you have the right time, give yourself a chance and learn to give up before you can get it.
Seventh, tolerance is a kind of good saying: “Retreat to the sky and make a little peace of mind.”
“This means that tolerance needs to be between people.”
Tolerance is a virtue that enables one to be respected.
Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person’s soul.
Tolerance is like a bright light that radiates the light in the darkness and illuminates every soul.
Eight, the soul that learns to tie the soul to the soul is fragile and needs constant stimulation and comfort.
Often self-motivated, self-recognition, and the soul is very happy.
Learning to loosen the mind is to create a warm harbor for yourself, and often walk in to massage your own tired and tired mind, so that the various parts of the mind are often maintained and maintained.
Nine, don’t take frustration as a failure to defeat everyone’s life, it will inevitably be frustrated and defeated.
The difference is that the loser always fails the frustration, so that each time can deeply resist the courage of his victory; the winners never give up, always say to themselves in the face of frustration again and again:”I have not failed, not even succeeded.
“A person who has temporarily lost, if he continues to work hard and intends to win back, then his failure today is not a real failure.
On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, it is a real loss.
Ten, to avoid troubles into heart disease In real life, people who are troubled all day long, in fact, did not encounter too much misfortune, but rooted in the inner world of troubled people.
Therefore, when troubles come, we should not blame others, nor do we renounce ourselves. We must learn to loosen our hearts, psychologically adjust ourselves, and avoid troubles into heart disease.
Eleven, happiness is actually very simple. Some people say that happiness is spring flowers, summer green shades, autumn wild fruits, and winter snow.
In fact, happiness is around us.
A heartfelt smile, a sincere handshake, and a heart-to-heart conversation are a very happy thing.